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月曜日, 11月 21, 2011
Exhausted. Many couples getting married this month... Seem like an auspicious month or do people generally get married bcus the new year is drawing near?
Well, I always look upon these blissful couples in their wedding and wonder how they walk this far. I have to admit that goosebump creeped all over me today when looking at EST wedding photos. I don't know their story very well, but the photos are so well taken that I feel so touched. Years ago, my perspective of marriage is very different. I used to think that the person whom I love will love me as much and marriage is a part of the loving journey when we reach a point of committing ourselves for a lifetime. However, finding someone who truly love you is rare as finding someone you love. Even if you feel it's time to commit, the other party feels otherwise. I've to agree that the differences in one's family background and life experience influence a person's view and priorities in life. But my personal opinion is that a longer time lapses into a relationship, you begin to doubt about marriage as one might experience a substantial amount of unhappy moments and feel insecure once the point has reached beyond a lifetime commitment. It's a crap feeling. You know you can live with the person, but is the feeling the same as before, you don't know. Love-not, hate-not.
Theory of love should be simple. Once a romance develops, it should continue with a commitment immediately. There's lesser to worry, you know you just love him/her. Life is too short to think too much. I made a mistake once, I know I've to cherish even more. Again, I don't know where I'm heading.
Love, alone.
Today is a GIFT.
12:42 午前
